Wednesday, February 13, 2013

My Thoughts O.o

Hi folks. I am hoping that you are all doing well. Sorry for being a bit absent lately. My birthday was wonderful, thank you all for your birthday well wishes. Since my birthday I have been in a bit of a funk.

I am not a drama queen and try my best to stay well and far away from any drama. Unfortunately, not everyone feels this way, and the nail community in general is often swamped with this or that kind of drama. Sadly, I have become the source of drama for others and have been withdrawing from most of the social media outlets. I only bring this up because I have been accused of swaplifting. Many of you have swapped, and bought from me. I know there are times the mail gets out of whack and things get lost, but for the most part I haven't had any problems. Well, that is until lately. I normally don't choose to get tracking because I only swap and sale with people I assume I can trust. I have had a couple slow deliveries and a lost packages since the first of the year. I have offered to and have refunded the people involved. As far as I am aware these were the only packages that have had problems. So although my packages didn't get to where they were going I at least tried to fix things. Everyone who has contacted me has said they were fine with our arrangements, so I am not sure where the swaplifting comes in. I am sorry this is going on, and wish I had a way to fix things.

I started blogging because it was something fun to do with my brother. I did not start out as a nail blogger, but I love doing that now. I have sincerely thought about all the accusations being thrown my way and everything that is happening. I will continue to blog, but only as long as it is fun for me. I love the friends I have made through blogging and know I have made some very true friends, but at the same time I have offended people. That's part of life, and you can't make everyone like or understand you.

I was originally going to ignore this matter altogether, but I want my friends and readers to know my thoughts.

15 comments:

  1. I am sorry this is happening, Jen. Although I don't know you personally, I know you have a kind heart <3 Keep blogging away my dear!

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  2. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. I bought my very first Bettinas from your blog sale a really long time ago. I hope it all blows over soon.

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  3. Aw, I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this. I hope it clears up soon, I love your blogging, so I hope you continue and enjoy it :) oxo

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    1. Thank you Krystal, you are always great!

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  4. I <3 u & think mean rude peeps need to get a life & leave u alone! I've had NO issues with doing business with you, NONE!

    IKR? I spent the day after my b-day feeling guilty for taking my b-day off. I was swamped with all the stuff I had to do that I didn't do on my b-day. Blerg...how dumb is that? lol Hang in there Cosmic Twin! <3

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  5. So sorry you have to deal with this. Hugs!

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  6. sorry to hear you've had to deal with this.. partly why I've decided not to swap, just too much could go wrong! thanks for the info, I knew there was some kind of drama going on in the polish blogging world (when isn't there?) but I never heard what it was about.

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    1. Thank you ^_^ Lol, there is a lot of drama in the nail world...never can understand how something so awesome can cause so much hooopla

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  7. Oh no, that's terrible! I hate the drama in the nail community. I barely know you and we did a really successful international swap, I'll vouch for you any time! Keep your head up high x

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  8. I am so sorry that you had to deal with this. Some people only exist for drama and they don't care who they hurt in the process. You are a sweet person who is honest and I have swapped with you with no problems whatsoever. So if anyone nasty and bullying reads this, I can vouch for her (Jenna) and you should be ashamed of yourself!!

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